THE FAMILY OF A NEW TYPE or RULES TO A HAPPY FAMILY.
50% or more of American marriages fall apart not because people don’t want to stay married or because they fell out of love but simply because they don’t know how to do it. They don’t know rules to building a happy family.
Many children were brought up in a one parent family or family with distractive behavior (mental and/or physical obtuse, addition (alcohol, drugs, sex…)) where harmony was on the last place to be worried about. Being raised in that specific environment many have learned how to build a family based on their own individualized experience often unconsciously repeating their parent’s path, yet in a different form.
Just like every organization or community with its own rules, so as marriage follows its own guide lines: love, loyalty, mutual respect, care and many more. Understanding the true meaning behind every one of them is already a huge progress and a chance to build a happy family everyone dreams of; being able to implement them and reap benefits to enjoy long-waited result is what we’ll focus on in this course “The family of a new type or Rules to a happy family”.

SUBJECTS:
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Introduction to the course.
Course goal. Current family trends & values in United States. Differences between current understanding of family and family of a new type.
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Genetic predisposition (paternal, maternal). Social influence (prenatal, childrenhood, adulthood).
Genetic predisposition plays a huge part in every human kind life experience. 2/3 of our concepts and ideas about ourselves and our partner, relationships between each other are inherited from previous generations (including grand- and grang-grandparents), whether we realize it not. Another 1/3 of our concepts and ideas come from sociatal influence. Can you identify them to modify their influence? That will be the focus of this class.
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Driving forces to interruption (genetic, prenatal, childrenhood). Key/program aspects from interruption to completion.
Interruption of relationship can be very black and white: separation, divorce. But it can also carry a hidden form: long distance relationship due to one’s or both partners jobs; tendency to look or attract partners who live in a different region and don’t want to move where you are; tendency to attract partners who have children from previous marrige and they become an “obsticle” in one way or another (one partner possibly doesn’t want to cause issues between the parent and child and for that reason decides to stap away) etc. All of these forms are result of genetic or environnmental influence. We will focus on program aspects on how to get from interruption to completion – marriage and achievement of happiness in it.
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Desire for each other.
We ‘ll be discussing such an integral part of marital relations as desire for each other and attraction to each other. Listeners will have to think about the original purpose of creating a family; what is the cement for bonding marital relations; what are the prerequisites for creating future marital relations. The reasons for the absence or extinction of desire are also analyzed from the point of view of the psychogenetics of behavior: hereditary behavior patterns, hereditary motivations for creating a family, specific personal experience in the past.
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Mutual respect.
This session talks about disrespect, consequences of which are more dramatic than they seem — unwanted states and destructive activity. Why does disrespect have such consequences? You will learn about the reasons for the prevalence of disrespect in marriage – general and more specific. And, of course, get the basic recipes for achieving mutual respect, leading to harmony in the family.
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Remove criticism.
Criticism is corrosion, which corrodes even very durable materials. Criticism is a poison that slowly and sometimes quickly kills the joy in a relationship. It is often disguised as love and care and it is something that we have inherited from our ancestors, due to historical reasons. In this session we will look at typical forms of criticism in marriage and in relationship to man-woman; why criticism has such consequences; explicit and implicit forms of criticism in marriage. You will learn ways to clear criticism and criticality in a marriage or partnership.
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Helping each other.
The previous three sessions have been devoted to eliminating what interferes with harmony and happiness in the family. From this lesson on, we will focus on developing what promotes harmonization. To begin, it will be necessary to identify typical forms of marital separation, traditional motives for separation; what does marriage between a man and a woman really mean? How to use it as an opportunity for harmony and happiness?
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Become a team.
This lesson examines the general meaning of bringing people together, which is behind falling in love, romance, attraction. What does separation in common purposes mean? What is the main goal of an ideal family team that leads to perfect love? The foundation and capabilities of an ideal team.
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Gather together a big harvest.
Here we come to the climax of the whole course – LOVE. It is important to understand that there is always a harvest (results)! And it should be reaped with pleasure, even if it is not sweet. The correct definition of the modern enlightened family allows us to understand the prerequisites for long-term family and personal happiness. How to prepare the ground for a future excellent harvest (problem setting)? How to sow (understanding and effort)? What does it take to enjoy a great harvest together?
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Love for each other.
How to attract love? How to generate love in another, close person? – questions, although rhetorical, but not at all idle! How people did not excel in arousing love for themselves. Usually the main thing that we want is to be loved, and as a rule, we understand a few things by that: we want to be accepted as we are, always to be agreed with, forgive everything, give us everything we want, etc. But this is still so far from the verital love and so contrary to universal fundamental laws. So what is verital love? How to come to it and on what foundation it can build, you will learn from this lesson.
Be the first one to learn these rules and implement them in order to create a happy family you have always wanted to have. If there is someone already living happily ever life, you can do it too!
DETAILS.
1 semester: – January – May, 2026 (10 classes)
Frequency: once every 2 weeks in person or online.
Duration: 1-1.25h lecture + 0.5h homework
Total Price: $1,150
– receive $150 discount when paid in full
– receive 15% off on any private consultations (reg. $150) when enrolled in any of our classes.
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